So, I'm realizing this more and more.
There are quite a few fundamental differences in the way that many men say things and think, that just don't go with the way many women think.
I can talk to my girlfriends and we understand pretty much everything that each other is saying. Even when we aren't saying ANYTHING. Even non verbally I mean.
But the moment a male comes into the picture suddenly it's like we are both speaking different languages! Because I say what I mean and he does also, except for the fact that when he says it it is masked by other words. It's like some sort of man code.
I never really learned how to communicate in the first place. So having to deal with this makes it extra harder.
Like even when arguing with a woman if we're in a bad place, we still understand the words coming out of each others mouths.
I need to learn how to communicate or I will never be able to have a long term relationship. I also need to learn to communicate with men if I want that long term relationship to be with a man.
I've been a little more attracted to women lately so maybe I should try it out some day. I think it wouldn't make much difference though because I still can't communicate effectively.
^_^